Word for the day: “Leadership and life superpower is love.”
I John 4:18 NKJV There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.
DEAR LEADERS,
I’ve discovered that the language of love can be multidimensional. Love has many components and dimensions. It’s not all emotion, and it often takes great effort. In other words, many times, love is what love does. Everyone experiences love differently, and it's easy to miss the mark when it comes to showing that you love family and friends, especially when trying to convey genuine care.
LOVE IS A SUPERPOWER.
Love is the most excellent form of spirituality. Perhaps, embodied in our life frustrations is a Love void. It may be plausible that our personal dissatisfactions are a void of loving oneself, embracing the Love of God, and ultimately, the ability to give and receive love. This is particularly challenging when we are seemingly incapable of giving others what we do not have for ourselves.
In Fact, as the years have passed, I have learned a little more about the challenge of love. In my role, I have the privilege to counsel people, families, and even friends who are affected by love frustration in their lives. I can relate to them personally often.
As a result, I’ve begun to assess myself and reflect upon my own understanding of the ultimate root of this life and love's significance. I recognized the void of authentic God's love that has morphed into a diminished love of self. When we embrace God’s love in our lives, I have discovered we stand a better chance of loving ourselves, and this is my personal experience.
Perhaps this is not the case for everyone, but I thought it important to share my experience in this matter of love.
FORGIVENESS IS AN ACT OF LOVE FOR ONESELF AND TOWARDS OTHERS.
Another significant dimension of love that can require great effort is the act of forgiveness. Love, in its most liberating form, forgives. Forgiveness can be simple, complex, or complicated. It has its best chance to present itself when one has learned it from a parent over the years of observation.
If our children are to be forgiving, their parents must teach them the art of forgiveness. Every day, in thousands of ways, children ask parents, “Do you forgive me?” The complex reality is that expectations can often lead parents to convey, consciously or unconsciously, the message, “You’re not forgiven.”
Forgiveness is taught and learned in dimensions of love within families and all human relationships. However, our ability or inability to forgive ourselves and others is rooted in our relationship with God. The Bible reminds us that God is love (I John 4:8, 16). I believe it’s time for some of us to make personal changes in our life’s journey, especially in learning about the power of love for ourselves and our legacies.
Quote: James Baker, Jr. “Legacy is not only what you leave for someone, but more importantly, it’s what you leave in someone.”
POINT TO PONDER
I am forever grateful that I have chosen a life of spirituality and God as my ultimate source, for better or worse. When I have gone through challenging periods in my life and felt dysfunctional personally.
It is God that I reached out to and felt the presence of the Sovereign God greater than myself to affirm that I’m loved. Love is what love does to family and friends. Let’s prepare and be ready to model love in its various dimensions to our family and relationships.
What message are you communicating to others?
Do you struggle to love yourself?
Do you struggle to forgive others?
What are you personally doing to grow in your Love relationships?
Is it plausible that Love relationships start with God? ·
What legacy of love are you passing forward?
Special Thanks,
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